Showing posts with label mom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mom. Show all posts

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Mother's Day

... thought about Mom all day long ... regardless of what I was doing ... 

I miss her ... but I do know she's somehow watching out for me ... we still talk ... often ...

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April was a stressful month ... planets didn't line up properly ... did whip them back in shape though .. little set-backs don't stop me from achieving what I want ... 

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Images below are from a recent shoot at Salton Sea ...

Model is Nicole Shanahan, make up and hair by Gina Novotchin, styling by Seema Hamid.

Nicole staying graceful while taking flight just before golden hour ...


Thursday, January 1, 2009

Happy New Year ...

Writing this from the beautiful US Airway Envoy Lounge in Philly ... on my way to Belgium again for my mom's funeral.

How did I end up with US Airway while being a United 1K flyer ?  Long story somewhat short ...

Called United Airlines on December 28th for a ticket and I was told that if I needed to fly SFO-BRU from Jan 2-Jan7, the ticket was going to be $2200.  Since I'm a 1k member and I've flown bereavement rates before, I asked for one.  The 1K customer service representative then proceeded explaining me that there are no bereavement rates at this time for international travel, only domestic.  Bummer, so next question

What is your lowest rate on this flight ?  (I don't have $2200 and I just flew the same route a week ago for $997 with a last minute reservation) That would be H rate @$1400, yes but we don't have this rate available any longer on this flight.

You are flying with empty seats, why can't you get me as a loyal customer a ticket at that rate ?  Response; I can't change our policies and processes.  (I do have a written response detailing this statement from the 1K customer service desk ...)

This is where I called BS.  Customer service always has an option to be flexible and ask a manager to sign off on it.  This rep just refused to do so after asking.  He's missing a sale and not meeting expectations of a repeat customer.  (I flew 44 segments in 2007 and 45 in 2008)

He finally recommends calling a day later and gamble on a H rate becoming available.  Nothing to loose, so I call back on Dec 29th to be told the rate for this flight is now $3200+.  No surprise, the closer to the departure date, the more expensive the rate, the online seating chart still shows 40+ seats available.

I ask for other options and the United Airlines rep comes up with an alternative solution flying Jan 1-7 for $2200, one day longer away from home with 2 stops each Atlantic crossing.  

I asked to check if there were any Star Alliance partners with an alternative but I was told that the customer service desk had no access, I had to check with the partner airlines.

So I did and booked the flights I'm currently on.  Jan 1-7.  Leaving SFO over Philly to BRU. Longer travel, loosing a day since the plane arrives late morning rather than early AM but the rate was what I could afford ... $1147,70 ... a steal compared to what United was trying to sell a loyal customer.

The funny thing is that every single flight I'm flying today/tomorrow and my return is a United / US Airways code shared flight ... there is no reason the 1K customer service rep wouldn't have seen this flight in his stock as there is a corresponding UA 4 digit flight number ... 

Remaining questions ... did I goof up by asking for a bereavement fare and giving away that I *really* had to be somewhere or is this simply a matter of total customer service apathy ?

We'll find out ... emails on their way to 1K customer service (United), regular customer service (United) with carbon copy to the CEO ... we'll see ...

There are reasons why people remain loyal to their airlines ... customer service is one of them ... 

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As for the aged, hand tinted photograph above, my mom in 1947, age 17 by an unknown studio photographer in Gent.

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They actually have food in the US Airways Envoy lounge ... 

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There's a mouse running around in the lounge ... lives in the floor AC duct ... funny to see it run in and out and chase the cookie crums on the carpet ... so far I'm the only one here who's aware of the little thing ... I'll keep it a secret, don't want any trouble ...

Friday, December 26, 2008

I'm an orphan ...

Mom passed away in the afternoon, 4:58pm local time (7:58am PST) surrounded by all her children ... I was able to hold her during passing just like we promised ... I cried just like she told me I would ... but we let go because we were together in this moment no matter how difficult it was for each of us ...



I could have never choosen a better mom ... you didn't have an easy life but you have always unwaivering dedicated yourself to us and dad regardless of choices and options you had at the time ...



It was good knowing you for all those years ... love you and be loved by you ... forever ... I let you go ...



I'm crying ... but that will stop ... our love will continue ... celebrate your life ... you will be missed ...



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Coincidental ... this loss comes exactly 6 months to the day my wife walked out on me ...


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Mom was one of my biggest supporters of my passion for photography and desire to make art with it ... she wanted to know you all ...


Christmas Evening and Christmas

Celebrating friendship ... connecting to strangers ... just right ...

Thinking about mom ...

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Traveling to Belgium with a heavy heart knowing the loss we will face ... crying at times but then remembering all the good memories and crying some more ...
Uneventfull flight ... it is Christmas day after all ...
Zipped through the airport in Brussels in 10 minutes ... brother in law is waiting to pick me up ...
We don't talk much ... I'm just wondering if I'll make it to the house in time ...
We do ... mom held on for all these days ...

Monday, December 22, 2008

Getting ready ...

... to travel to Belgium again ... talked to mom last Friday to let her know I'm on my way ...

The conversation was short ... painfully short.  She was obviously hurting ... she's shutting down ... on morphine ...

Be strong ... let go ...




Continued.

Friday, December 12, 2008

My week in 11 lines ...

Solving business problems over the phone

Retouching images

Staying out of trouble

Working with the best

The very best

Shooting interaction

Thinking about mom

Travel, visiting my daughter Amarilla

Changing plans

Living a changed dynamic

Happy


Sunday, December 7, 2008

Friends

I cherish them ... I love them ... when a most important relationship in my life ended, I found out I had many more friends than I thought possible ... friends that understand the meaning of unconditional are great ...

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Just talked to mom ... there are things you can't say often enough so I say them often rather than too little ... "I love you" is one of them.

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Got my first Christmas card from the year ... knocked my socks off ... ;-) ... 

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This week was a roller coaster ... so looking forward to next week ...




Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Unconditional

I set

You

free

because

I love
you

always

unconditionally

love me.


Monday, November 24, 2008

Snow and tears

We got hit on Sunday afternoon by a real snow storm ... at least by Belgian norms ... it didn't snow this early in the year for the last 15 or so. 

The kids had fun, car drivers were tested in their skills to stay afloat in the mess.

4 inches in a matter of an hour.  The image on the left is taken not too far from the house where I grew up between age 12 to 24 ... (yes, I'm still growing up ...)

There's a typical Flanders man made canal for flat boat transport.  It's hardly used anymore but it is a great place for a walk or a bike ride.  The trail goes on for miles, the canal runs between Ghent and Bruges.

After my sisters left with their kids, it was quiet time again for mom and me.  We talked some more about her upcoming challenges and I could clearly sense she was pushing away the pain.

Nevertheless ... she wanted to see my last photography work and she spend the better part of an hour to check out the latest.

Mom says "hi" to all of you ... you know who you are ... 

She woke me up at 4am this morning ... breakfast was ready ... coffee made ... just like in the old days before sending us off to school ...

We cried ... inside and outside ... 




Continued ...

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Belgium

Arrived at my mom's place at 22h30 in the midst of a snow and rain storm ... she opened the door before I even got out of the car ... she just knows like she always does ... she's well ... extremely well for her condition ...

We talk about life and love ... cherishing these moments while we can still have them ...

Continued ...

Friday, November 21, 2008

Business Travel

Writing this from the Frankfurt airport where I'm waiting for my 4th flight in 50 hours on a total of 6 hours of sleep. It's called "business travel" for a reason ... lol

On my way to see mom and to catch some zzzz's ... it just started snowing here ... cold front from the North Pole moving in ...

Continued ...

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Talked to my mom ...

... today ... she's feeling good and is able to walk around the house again.  Not up to go outside at this point but still, this is major progress.  She's not in pain.

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Editing pictures from a shoot in London (ON).  April on her balcony.

April is a fashion model and branched out into fine art and figure nude modeling.

She's energetic, versatile, reliable and passionate about modeling.

Friday, September 12, 2008

Friday, September 12, 2008

Mom is going home on Saturday.  She's sufficiently stabilized to receive care at home ... always better.

I'm on my way back to San Francisco over Washington.  Flights are uneventful but I can't get online in the lounges either ... Brussels charges $30 for 4 hours internet access but I have only 30 minutes ...so not worth the money.

Have to take the BART from SFO to Fremont and the train I'm on has an issue with brakes.  It smells terrible ... burned rubber.  After a while they can unlock the brake.  It takes me over 2 hours to make the trip.  Long but it beats paying for expensive daily airport parking.

Checking emails, fielding phone calls and text messages ... it's good to be home.  Having mom in my prayers.

Continued ...